{"id":128,"date":"2014-09-04T20:55:29","date_gmt":"2014-09-05T00:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.paageetcie.com\/blog\/blog\/?p=128"},"modified":"2017-03-25T13:12:12","modified_gmt":"2017-03-25T17:12:12","slug":"what-to-do-after-losing-a-loved-one-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.paageetcie.com\/blog\/what-to-do-after-losing-a-loved-one-2\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do After Losing a Loved One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When a loved one dies, your life will suddenly change as you take on new responsibilities. You should make choices carefully to avoid making a bad time even worse, and have a fresh look at arranging your own affairs.<\/p>\n<p>One of your first tasks should be to call the lawyer and accountant of the deceased who will advise you on what to do next. Meanwhile, gather vital records for the deceased such as the birth certificate, marriage certificate, military discharge papers, social security number, records of personal property, bank accounts, investments and real estate owned.<\/p>\n<p>Once these papers are in hand \u2013 along with the death certificate \u2013 more phone calls need to be made:<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\"><br \/>\nEmployer or Union (past or current)<\/span><\/strong>. If the deceased was still working, the survivor may be due benefits like life insurance, bonus and vacation pay. If this person was collecting a pension, payments may now go to the surviving spouse.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Social Security Administration (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ssa.gov\" target=\"_blank\">www.ssa.gov<\/a>)<\/span><\/strong>. If the deceased left a surviving spouse and\/or unmarried children under 18, they may be eligible for monthly benefits.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Veteran\u2019s Administration (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.va.gov\" target=\"_blank\">www.va.gov<\/a>).<\/span><\/strong> Assuming the deceased was in the military, the VA may help with burial expenses and determine whether a national cemetery can be used.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Insurance Company. <\/span><\/strong>You\u2019ll want to know about any insurance payoff that is due.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Assets.<\/span><\/strong> Inventory personal property like bank accounts, life insurance policies, 401K plans, investment accounts, jewelry, fine art and real estate.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Creditors.<\/span><\/strong> Some creditors, like credit card and mortgage companies, provide life insurance for their customers. Check to see if the deceased was enrolled in such a program.<br \/>\nFinally, it\u2019s time to review your own affairs. A lawyer or financial advisor can help ensure your wishes are followed with minimal impact from taxes and legal fees.<br \/>\n.<br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #003da8;\"><strong>Will.<\/strong><\/span> Be sure to name an executor who is responsible since this person will carry out your wishes when you\u2019re gone.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Guardian.<\/span><\/strong> Choose a guardian(s) for your minor children. Make appropriate financial provisions for them. Also, write a letter to the guardian(s) stating how you want your children to be raised.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Trust.<\/span><\/strong> Consider setting up a trust to manage assets for the future benefit of your beneficiaries. Designate a trustee to run the trust.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Health Care Directives.<\/span><\/strong> Prepare a living will and health care proxy to explain your wishes concerning measures you want taken to artificially sustain your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Power of Attorney.<\/span><\/strong> Select a power of attorney to make decisions on your behalf if you become incapacitated.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Insurance.<\/span><\/strong> Review your insurance needs. Choose primary and contingent beneficiaries.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Bank Accounts and Pension Plans.<\/span><\/strong> Review and update your beneficiary designations.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #003da8;\">Organize and Inventory All Important Documents.<\/span><\/strong> Store documents, such as those listed above, in a safe and secure place. Inform family members or a trusted friend of the contents and location of these documents.<\/p>\n<p>In short, try to avoid leaving a headache for whoever someday settles your financial affairs \u2013 hopefully many years from now.<\/p>\n<p><em>Claudette E. Pa\u00e4ge is president of Pa\u00e4ge et Cie Business &amp; Personal Management Services Ltd. (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.paageetcie.com\/blog\/\">www.paageetcie.com<\/a>). She is also the author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.paageetcie.com\/blog\/\/buy-the-book\/\">No Time Like Now, A \u00a0Guide to Organizing Your Life, a booklet to help you arrange key documents and plan for emergencies<\/a>. Excerpted from Balance, The Magazine about Getting and Staying Organized<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a loved one dies, your life will suddenly change as you take on new responsibilities. You should make choices carefully to avoid making a bad time even worse, and have a fresh look at arranging your own affairs. 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